Using Letters To Enhance your Dating and Romance
In this day of e-mail and, worse yet, text messaging and short messaging service (SMS), the practice of trying to romance your sweetheart, keeping your dating experiences exciting, and to write her a romantic note has all but disappeared.
That's all the more reason to do it. If everyone's delivering roses, your six red flowers aren't going to stand out nearly as much. The same is true of any time you are flirting with your sweetheart. If you take the time to write her a romantic note when everyone else is sending an SMS that says I Luv Yu, you're really going to stand out as the "sweet romantic" among the crowd of cads.
Here are some tips on just how to enhance your dating by writing your sweetheart a moving note. Follow our guidance and she'll think of you often even when you're not around. When you're done don't just hand it to her, or mail it to her. Hide it somewhere that will remind her of you, but somewhere she will be sure to find it. Perhaps you two sit often in the swing on the back porch. Leave your romantic note there, secured with a sachet or something else sweet and romantic and a little weighty so your note doesn't blow away.
The first thing you're going to need to romance your sweetheart with your romantic note is something you almost always have around the house, a standard 8 x 11 paper. Cut the paper in half, and then half again. Choose one of these smaller sheets and fold it in half to make a tent.
This note for your sweetheart doesn't have to be prolific Shakespeare. It should be short, sweet, and from the heart. In fact, what you probably want to do is start it on the cover of your tent and then complete the thought inside.
Your cover might say, "All my thoughts of you" and inside you might write "make me smile". Or, if there is something you two have together in secret, a secret saying, secret pet names, a favorite adventure, refer to that. "Our secret hideaway", on the cover, "will forever be my favorite spot".
Keep in mind, however, that it's very important you not embarrass your sweetheart. While you want to make sure she finds it, you also want to make sure no one else finds it. Placing it on her desk at work, especially if you work there too, is a real no-no, unless you've hidden it under her purse or in her coat pocket or somewhere that unobtrusive.
Be careful about being too sexy. That could ruin the sweet, romantic mood. If you think your woman is too practical, and too matter of fact, and wouldn't want such a gushy display of love and affection - think again. There isn't a woman alive that wouldn't think more of you if you romance your sweetheart and write her a romantic note from time to time. This will make your dating experiences more exciting and loving.
